Tuesday, June 8, 2010

Who Is In Your Circle of Prayer Friends?

Wise words from my spiritual Mama, St. Teresa of Avila:

"A great evil it is for a soul to be alone in the midst of so many dangers. It seems to me that if I should have had someone to talk all this over with it would have helped me. . . For this reason I would counsel those who practice prayer to seek, at least in the beginning, friendship and association with other persons having the same interest. This is something most important even though the association may be only to help one another with prayers. The more of these prayers there are, the greater the gain.

Since friends are sought out for conversations and human attachments, even though these latter may not be good, so as to relax and better enjoy telling about vain pleasures, I don't know why it is not permitted that persons beginning truly to love and serve God talk with some others about their joys and trials, which all who practice prayer undergo. . . I believe that they who discuss these joys and trials for the sake of this friendship with God will benefit themselves and those who hear them, and they will come away instructed; even without understanding how, they will have instructed their friends."

(The Collected Works of St. Teresa of Avila, Vol. 1, pgs. 92-93)


  1. This is so beautiful! A friend that does not desire your growth in holiness is no friend at all. Thank you.

  2. I am blessed with two friends I pray with. I am sending this quote to them. Thank you for the enlightenment. God bless you. I discovered your blog yesterday through Jen's Conversion Diary, and have been addicted since. Congratulations on the birth of your new little daughter.

    Your words are an enormous inspiration. I thank God so very much for converts! You reveal to us "cradle Catholics" the beauty of what we often have taken for granted or, tragically, forsaken.